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发表于 2024-6-27 10:55:39 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式 | 来自湖北
Each of us wants to be at the top of the pyramid. Throughout the society, a large number of people are at the bottom of the pyramid, and only some people are at the top of the pyramid. People at the bottom can only do ordinary work, with ordinary income, can not achieve their own happiness and the joy of success, but we can not ignore these people at the top of the tower, once also at the bottom, from unknown, ordinary people-step by step to the top of the pyramid. Achieving the goal requires a process, requires hard work, needs to constantly improve and improve. Let each of us set our work goals from now on, start from now on, abandon boredom and mediocrity, tap and stimulate our own potential, to achieve happiness and success. Let our happiness and success begin with setting a goal.
 楼主| 发表于 2024-6-27 10:58:30 | 显示全部楼层 | 来自湖北
我们每个人都想站在金字塔的顶端。整个社会,大量的人处在金字塔的底层,只有一部分人处在金字塔的顶层。底层的人只能做着普通的工作,有普通的收入,无法获得属于自己的幸福和成功的喜悦,但我们不能忽视这些处在塔顶的人,曾经也是在底层,从默默无闻、平凡无奇的人——一步步走到金字塔的顶端。实现目标需要一个过程,需要努力,需要不断的完善和提高。让我们每个人从现在开始就设定自己的工作目标,从现在开始,抛弃无聊和平庸,挖掘和激发自己的潜能,获得幸福和成功。让我们的幸福和成功从设定目标开始。
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 楼主| 发表于 2024-6-27 11:09:15 | 显示全部楼层 | 来自湖北
Recently, I've been reading Flow: The Psychology of Best Experiences, which is about how we get into "flow" in our daily life, entertainment, work, relationships, etc. As Mihali says in his book: work can be cruel and boring, but it can also be full of fun and excitement. We work eight hours a day, and if these eight hours are anxious and bad, then it is impossible to pursue happiness in our whole life. So, how do you make this eight hours interesting? We've all heard such a story. A man passed a construction site, saw three wall workers, asked them, the first person is not angry said: " didn't see? I am building a wall ", turned to ask the second person, he said:" I am building a beautiful building ", when asked the third person, the person happily said:" I am building a beautiful city "! Everyone has his own goal in life, without goals, you will feel empty and boring, we will not experience happiness in the work, we will not experience the feeling of "flow". We want to have a sense of "flow" in the work, in addition to having a down-to-earth "flow" of "I build a beautiful city" of "wall", but also must understand where our own goal is, to define a future, not just to "build a wall". Be bold and carefully. In the future, we can have more powerful motivation to make progress, and we have to decide what we can do according to our own ability. This thing should be not difficult for us and not too simple, just challenging, and has the possibility of realization. In terms of work, it is to set reasonable work goals for ourselves, which is reasonable and matches our ability. Our goal is too low, and no challenge will cause boredom. If our goals are too high, it will produce anxiety and fear. Only when our abilities and challenges improve at the same time can we achieve the "flow" state. With a goal, life becomes full of meaning, -cut seems to be clear, clear place in front of you. What should be done, what should not be done, why to do, and for whom, all the elements are so obvious and clear. So life will add more vitality and passion. Make our own hidden potential to fully burst, for the realization of high-quality life to lay a solid foundation. If each of us wants to be successful and happy, we cannot live without a goal. In fact, a man without a clear plan to achieve them, no matter how hard we work, will be a ship without a rudder. We must first determine what we want to do before we can achieve our set goals. Many of the occasional highlights of our day after day work are the embodiment of our own success and happiness. What kind of goal, have what kind of life. Perhaps the work we are engaged in is insignificant, but as long as we are strongly eager to climb the peak of success, put themselves in the macro world of the whole society, seriously do a good job in life positioning, clear goals, and willing to pay for this
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 楼主| 发表于 2024-6-27 11:15:04 | 显示全部楼层 | 来自湖北
最近在看《心流:最佳体验心理学》,这本书讲的是我们如何在日常生活、娱乐、工作、人际关系等中进入“心流”。正如米哈利在书中所说:工作可以是残酷无情的,也可以是充满乐趣和刺激的。我们每天工作八个小时,如果这八个小时都是焦虑和糟糕的,那么我们一辈子都不可能追求幸福。那么,如何让这八个小时变得有趣呢?我们都听过这样一个故事。一个人路过一个建筑工地,看见三个砌墙工人,问他们,第一个人不生气地说:“没看见吗?我在砌一堵墙”,转身问第二个人,他说:“我在砌一栋漂亮的建筑”,问第三个人时,那个人高兴地说:“我在砌一座美丽的城市”!每个人都有自己的人生目标,没有目标,就会感到空虚无聊,我们在工作中就不会体验到幸福,就不会体验到“心流”的感觉。我们要在工作中拥有“心流”的感觉,
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 楼主| 发表于 2024-6-27 11:18:36 | 显示全部楼层 | 来自湖北
英语作文。
题目《心流flow》
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发表于 2024-6-27 13:04:32 来自江汉热线APP | 显示全部楼层 | 来自湖北
 
做为小学毕业在金字塔最底层的我默默路过…来自: Android客户端
 
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发表于 2024-6-27 14:10:13 来自江汉热线APP | 显示全部楼层 | 来自湖北
 
书读多了的人,想法好复杂。
我怎么从来没有想到要站在金字塔的顶端呢, 自己有几斤几两,心里很清楚。
我也从来没有羡慕站在金字塔顶端的人,爹有娘有赶不到自己有。
人一辈子没有大病,没有大灾难就是福,知足常乐来自: Android客户端
 
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发表于 2024-6-27 19:17:25 来自江汉热线APP | 显示全部楼层 | 来自湖北
 
社会的价值体系是多元的来自: Android客户端
 
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发表于 2024-7-1 16:23:56 来自江汉热线APP | 显示全部楼层 | 来自湖北
 
对与错 发表于 2024-6-27 14:10
书读多了的人,想法好复杂。
我怎么从来没有想到要站在金字塔的顶端呢, 自己有几斤几两,心里很清楚。
我 ...

是的,书读多了的人想法好复杂,自己把自己害了来自: Android客户端
 
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